I often get parents asking me about how to support their deaf child. Common questions like; do I teach them sign language? Should I encourage them to speak?, Should I get a cochlear implant for my child?

 

I can’t answer these questions as everyone is different; each family’s circumstances are different. I am more than happy to provide information and guidance supporting both sides of every argument but the decision is never one I can make!

 

 

How to treat your deaf child

 

You have a beautiful child and s/he is no different to any other child so you do not need to treat them any different because they are deaf.

 

 

Communication

 

I encourage the use of a combination of both speech and sign then letting the child choose as they grow. I was brought up to speak but actually I prefer to sign now.

 

Using a combination of both speech and sign allows you the flexibility that when any aid (hearing aids, BAHA, Cochlear Implant) is used, speech can be used but if the child decides one day s/he doesn’t want to use it that night you can still communicate.

 

When an aid is used, there are times the child is not allowed to use it, i.e. during sports or when they are in the bath etc, how are you going to communicate with your child then?

 

As the child grows they may choose to continue using both methods and they may choose just one, you need to ensure you support your child in their decision even if you don’t agree with it.

 

 

Implants and hearing aids

 

If you want your child to use any form of aid then that is fine but it is entirely your choice as a parent to make. People can provide you with guidance, I can answer questions with all the good and bad points but then it’s up to you and you alone to make that final choice, and no-one else will make the decision.

 

As your child grows up then s/he may choose not to wear it and that is something you may have to just accept. You can support your child by encouraging them to use the aid, praising them when they use them but please don’t force them. If you continue to force your child it could almost become like a punishment.

 

 

Please remember this is just my opinions and advise, please feel free to email me with any queries.